hiya everyone happy Sunday. Hope you had a wonderful sunday service or rest ? Well am giving my wonderful page viewers an opportunity to send in interesting episodes of themselves or on any topics. This column "your episodes" is for you my wonderful page viewers.
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While we thank God for a wonderful month of May, I look forward to seeing you next month . E hugs viewers
Sunday 31 May 2015
Saturday 30 May 2015
NEIGHBORS
Who is your Neighbor and how many of us are neighbors to others?
You see when Jesus was asked this question, he replied with the story of the Good Samaritan. A little help or assistance to another in need without the intension of being paid back makes you a good neighbor.
I have encountered people with beautiful hearts in times am in need or when they are helping someone else, watching how they go out of their ways to help another. Mind you not everyone you Intend to help are genuine as some who had helped people have gotten their fingers burnt. Mmm but dear friends being burnt while helping a needing person should not hold you back from helping . Keep at being good and in due season you shall be rewarded if you faint not.
I have being down with malaria since morning not having strength to help myself. A beautiful heart came along when i called and helped me out. It was such a touching moment for me. So I dedicate this post to My dear sister Nanfang who drove to my place and took me to see a doctor. Your help saved my life. Thank you .
Dear friends be a good neighbor no matter your past experiences for you might just be saving a life. Enjoy your weekend. Mua.
You see when Jesus was asked this question, he replied with the story of the Good Samaritan. A little help or assistance to another in need without the intension of being paid back makes you a good neighbor.
I have encountered people with beautiful hearts in times am in need or when they are helping someone else, watching how they go out of their ways to help another. Mind you not everyone you Intend to help are genuine as some who had helped people have gotten their fingers burnt. Mmm but dear friends being burnt while helping a needing person should not hold you back from helping . Keep at being good and in due season you shall be rewarded if you faint not.
I have being down with malaria since morning not having strength to help myself. A beautiful heart came along when i called and helped me out. It was such a touching moment for me. So I dedicate this post to My dear sister Nanfang who drove to my place and took me to see a doctor. Your help saved my life. Thank you .
Dear friends be a good neighbor no matter your past experiences for you might just be saving a life. Enjoy your weekend. Mua.
Friday 29 May 2015
It's a new dawn
As Nigerians rejoice in the swearing in of the new president, I like to congratulate our new President and his vice on their new journey and to let them know that we Nigerians are believing the Lord would use them to cause the change we have all clamoured for. We are not asking for much but that the basic amenities and necessities of life be provided for us the citizens of Nigeria.
A lot has happened prior to and after the elections and we believe God was in it all through. Jubilation is still on going in my area and I just benefited from the swearing in. "Shines teeth." I bought something from an aboki and he sold it so cheap because according to him, he is very happy with the way things are going. Let this unity continue to reign amongst us and we believe Nigeria would be a better nation.
The proverbial saying that a patient dog eats the fattest bone has come to play in the life of our president. So we are praying that the lord would strengthen him and his cabinets for the great task ahead. Amen.
One nation bound in freedom , peace and unity is the last stanza of our national anthem and am using this avenue to encourage all not to give up in our dear country Nigeria but to keep praying for its leaders and citizens. So help us God. Happy democracy day everyone .
A lot has happened prior to and after the elections and we believe God was in it all through. Jubilation is still on going in my area and I just benefited from the swearing in. "Shines teeth." I bought something from an aboki and he sold it so cheap because according to him, he is very happy with the way things are going. Let this unity continue to reign amongst us and we believe Nigeria would be a better nation.
The proverbial saying that a patient dog eats the fattest bone has come to play in the life of our president. So we are praying that the lord would strengthen him and his cabinets for the great task ahead. Amen.
One nation bound in freedom , peace and unity is the last stanza of our national anthem and am using this avenue to encourage all not to give up in our dear country Nigeria but to keep praying for its leaders and citizens. So help us God. Happy democracy day everyone .
Thursday 28 May 2015
POT OF THOUGHTS
Imagine you are writing your own obituary or given an opportunity to write about your life, what will you say? When you look back on your life , on people you have known, on things you have done, what picture would you see? Hmmmm I bet a lot of us would be unhappy about the kinds of decisions we took based on our thoughts.
Momoh K said our thoughts are like placing an order in the restuarant, of course you would be served soonest. What thoughts do you carry with you when faced with situations? Do you perceive you are a victim of bad luck and the only breaks you get are bad breaks, maybe you wish for once that you could take control of your life. If so, you aren't the only person who feels that way. But, you have the freedom to choose how you will respond to the circumstances.
Viktor Frankl adviced that everyone is valuable and life can be meaningful no matter how improvised it seems. It is not what you do that matters but how you do it.
Let's be so conscious of our thoughts as the universe would always respond to how you think. So think right. Be in charge of your thought pattern and see things working for your favour.
Viktor Frankl adviced that everyone is valuable and life can be meaningful no matter how improvised it seems. It is not what you do that matters but how you do it.
Let's be so conscious of our thoughts as the universe would always respond to how you think. So think right. Be in charge of your thought pattern and see things working for your favour.
Wednesday 27 May 2015
CHILDREN OF YESTERDAY
I remember those days as children when we look forward to being our best in school uniforms, heading towards the stadium after practicing for weeks on how to march and salute the governor. The excitement of meeting old friends in other schools, showing off your parade uniforms, the anticipation of being called out as the winner amongst other schools and taking the grand prize. The freedom of experiencing the scourging sun and moving around without anyone baby sitting you to move and not move around. Lol. (Bell ringer's routine) and of course the joy of not bothering on so many other things has kind of fizzled out.
Can you remember how we used to play eten or ten ten , suwey, kicking seed, game box, mopol, fake cooking with grass on small tin tomatoes cup, children playing together in a big field, reading and spelling competition and many other interesting games. Oh! How I miss those days .
Today, the fun of childhood have being replaced by fenced compounds, computer games, DSTV e.t.c. Sighs!😔 children don't catch fun again.
Well, I know the children of these days cannot understand what I am talking about but can only imagine it. Being an adult does not change the fact that I was once a child. Children now fend for themselves and don't play anymore.
Can you remember how we used to play eten or ten ten , suwey, kicking seed, game box, mopol, fake cooking with grass on small tin tomatoes cup, children playing together in a big field, reading and spelling competition and many other interesting games. Oh! How I miss those days .
Today, the fun of childhood have being replaced by fenced compounds, computer games, DSTV e.t.c. Sighs!😔 children don't catch fun again.
Well, I know the children of these days cannot understand what I am talking about but can only imagine it. Being an adult does not change the fact that I was once a child. Children now fend for themselves and don't play anymore.
Despite all the changes out there, I want wish everyone who was once a child and the children of today. happy children's day. Please give your child a treat and make them feel special. E hugs. Shines teeth.
Tuesday 26 May 2015
CAUTION LADIES
Gone were the days when scammers /419ners pick you along the road and start blabing about a bag filled with money that needs special prayers before it can be used, to 419ners now building a syndicate to scam a very financial comfortable lady in order to rip her off her wealth. They have grown to the level of now pretending to be in love with these ladies , get them pregnant, marry them and when they are done with you, they leave you penniless. Yes! You heard me right, they fake love around a lady to scam her.
Now this is reality. I had a conversation with an unfortunate lady who was a bank manager now turned caterer that fell for a fraudster.
I would call her Vivian. She was a successful wealthy single lady in her 30s believing God for a life partner when she fell into the hands of a 419ner. They met at a restuarant and one thing led to another they became intimate. This man made her grant a loan through her bank for a business which he advised should be a joint venture business.
From her story, she can't explain how that money was spent by the man. He told her he was ready to settle down in less than 4 months and proved his seriousness by first going for registry. She got pregnant while planning for their traditional wedding.
A month into their relationship, he took her to his village down the eastern part of nigeria and showed her to his family which of course shows a man who was into her. This and the whole wedding plans and ceremony happened in a space of 4 months.
Now the summary of this story is that she lost her job when the loan could not be repaid, had a son for him, lost the business they both started as he squandered the money, she was reduced to penury and relocated back to another state where she started afresh learning cakes and decor to meet up, discovered through a family member that loved her that the family he showed her where his syndicate of which his mother was a part, he was never a doctor as he made her believe , there are other ladies he has done same with and made them have a child for him while recking them to penury and above all he was a diabolical person.
This lady was so heart broken and frustrated, that it took the grace of God for her to be standing today. So dear ladies in as much you want to settle down, don't allow desperation make you fall in the hands of wrong men. None shall lack her mate so says the holy book . Be prayerful and be happy with your self. Just be careful. E hugs to you.
Now this is reality. I had a conversation with an unfortunate lady who was a bank manager now turned caterer that fell for a fraudster.
I would call her Vivian. She was a successful wealthy single lady in her 30s believing God for a life partner when she fell into the hands of a 419ner. They met at a restuarant and one thing led to another they became intimate. This man made her grant a loan through her bank for a business which he advised should be a joint venture business.
From her story, she can't explain how that money was spent by the man. He told her he was ready to settle down in less than 4 months and proved his seriousness by first going for registry. She got pregnant while planning for their traditional wedding.
A month into their relationship, he took her to his village down the eastern part of nigeria and showed her to his family which of course shows a man who was into her. This and the whole wedding plans and ceremony happened in a space of 4 months.
Now the summary of this story is that she lost her job when the loan could not be repaid, had a son for him, lost the business they both started as he squandered the money, she was reduced to penury and relocated back to another state where she started afresh learning cakes and decor to meet up, discovered through a family member that loved her that the family he showed her where his syndicate of which his mother was a part, he was never a doctor as he made her believe , there are other ladies he has done same with and made them have a child for him while recking them to penury and above all he was a diabolical person.
This lady was so heart broken and frustrated, that it took the grace of God for her to be standing today. So dear ladies in as much you want to settle down, don't allow desperation make you fall in the hands of wrong men. None shall lack her mate so says the holy book . Be prayerful and be happy with your self. Just be careful. E hugs to you.
Monday 25 May 2015
lets hear your opinion
Yeaaaa good morning and welcome to a new week. I believe it is fresh and a lot would be achieved if we set our minds to it. Now I have one gist for you.
Somewhere in town is this block of flat converted to one bedroom and room self contain . If you stay in Abuja you would understand the issue of housing is not a thing of joke because houses in Abuja are damn expensive. So I have some neighbors who are always at home and even when they go to work (of course late) they arrive early ; of course it's none of my business how they live their lives but it becomes my issue when I am made to contribute for PHCN prepaid card every two weeks because of the way the meter runs and your humble sister is hardly at home as my job requires me to leave early and come back late.
They decided to disconnect me after I refused to pay light bill when
our last recharge was barely two weeks and make me sleep in darkness. This led to a lot of argument, in d process I tell them say If na Delta or Edo state this issue happen wey them make me sleep darkness while dem sleep with light, them for scatter the meter make everyone dey darkness but as a civilized babe I report the case to nepa and pay for my own meter .
I discussed this issue with some friends and one of them made me laugh. She said " if nA me I go make sure say that meter come down and if anyone try to stop me, I go break e head then by the next day I go return back to being matured. Lmao babes no wan hear. Abeg Wetin be una opinion oo for this matter?
Yes am back and this next question is to men . Please men Wetin una see for ikebe ( buttocks)? Please it's not funny at all ooo. I need sincere answer from men.
My girl friend and I went strolling one evening and to be modest in my description , she is heavily endowed front and back ( arsenal and Barcelona kind of packaging ) we kept getting stops from men because of her. Now she requested I put this in my blog to get the opinion of men. So over to you guys."winks".
Somewhere in town is this block of flat converted to one bedroom and room self contain . If you stay in Abuja you would understand the issue of housing is not a thing of joke because houses in Abuja are damn expensive. So I have some neighbors who are always at home and even when they go to work (of course late) they arrive early ; of course it's none of my business how they live their lives but it becomes my issue when I am made to contribute for PHCN prepaid card every two weeks because of the way the meter runs and your humble sister is hardly at home as my job requires me to leave early and come back late.
They decided to disconnect me after I refused to pay light bill when
our last recharge was barely two weeks and make me sleep in darkness. This led to a lot of argument, in d process I tell them say If na Delta or Edo state this issue happen wey them make me sleep darkness while dem sleep with light, them for scatter the meter make everyone dey darkness but as a civilized babe I report the case to nepa and pay for my own meter .
I discussed this issue with some friends and one of them made me laugh. She said " if nA me I go make sure say that meter come down and if anyone try to stop me, I go break e head then by the next day I go return back to being matured. Lmao babes no wan hear. Abeg Wetin be una opinion oo for this matter?
Yes am back and this next question is to men . Please men Wetin una see for ikebe ( buttocks)? Please it's not funny at all ooo. I need sincere answer from men.
My girl friend and I went strolling one evening and to be modest in my description , she is heavily endowed front and back ( arsenal and Barcelona kind of packaging ) we kept getting stops from men because of her. Now she requested I put this in my blog to get the opinion of men. So over to you guys."winks".
Sunday 24 May 2015
Laugh Out Loud
Yea this column is to crack your ribs. Abeg if the story no funny laugh any how.😀
Now my office is made up of funny sets of human beings and we hardly have a dull moment if we are not being consumed by work. Now this lady whose fiancé was celebrating his birthday decided to make it low key thing. It was just for two. So the next day I asked her how was the surprise party she organized and she responded by saying she only bought cake and drinks. Then I was "ohh you had a cocktail party for two then" . Her next response cracked me up . She said no! It was not a cocktail party but a cock and balls things all night and it was good. Lmao oh my God the babe no wan hear ooo.
See you next time.😉
...so this guy in my office was sharing a strange mixture in a container with other collegues in the office when another collegue came with a cup requesting for his own share but asked what exactly the mixture was. He was told its a mixture of trouser adjusting effect and everyone in the office burst into laughter. He quickly dropped his cup and brought a bigger cup. Another guy laughed and said this is how you know a guy with small mallams , the bigger the cup , the smaller the mallam. Lol .
By the time he tasted the drink, he discovered it was coca cola . Looolll. Oh my God nothing we no go hear. Abeg my people, don't accept a drink with the inscription "share a coke with mallam because it means something else to some people oooo.
Now my office is made up of funny sets of human beings and we hardly have a dull moment if we are not being consumed by work. Now this lady whose fiancé was celebrating his birthday decided to make it low key thing. It was just for two. So the next day I asked her how was the surprise party she organized and she responded by saying she only bought cake and drinks. Then I was "ohh you had a cocktail party for two then" . Her next response cracked me up . She said no! It was not a cocktail party but a cock and balls things all night and it was good. Lmao oh my God the babe no wan hear ooo.
See you next time.😉
...so this guy in my office was sharing a strange mixture in a container with other collegues in the office when another collegue came with a cup requesting for his own share but asked what exactly the mixture was. He was told its a mixture of trouser adjusting effect and everyone in the office burst into laughter. He quickly dropped his cup and brought a bigger cup. Another guy laughed and said this is how you know a guy with small mallams , the bigger the cup , the smaller the mallam. Lol .
By the time he tasted the drink, he discovered it was coca cola . Looolll. Oh my God nothing we no go hear. Abeg my people, don't accept a drink with the inscription "share a coke with mallam because it means something else to some people oooo.
Heart Cries 1
I heard of this phrase that unforgiveness is like a prison whose occupant after letting go was you.
I am discussing on this because at every point in our lives, we have being hurt by a friend, family or loved one and some times the depth of the hurt is so deep we hardly let go.
I have heard and met people who had being hurt and have refused to let go and seriously folks whether we believe it or not, if we don't let go of our hurts, we are stunting our growth. A lot of married couples are childless due to unforgiveness others have lost opportunities while some others have vowed never to go into what led to the hurt .
Well, what ever be the reason for the hurt, let go. Yea you heard me right ! Let go. Nothing dey dis life ooo. If you die now every thing don finish . Sweet heart life it's self is a risk. That you were born was a risk; so don't be afraid to love again, or apply for that job or go into business partnership or be married again. Give your self a second chance and try again. Take that step of faith and see restoration come your way. Happy Sunday.
I am discussing on this because at every point in our lives, we have being hurt by a friend, family or loved one and some times the depth of the hurt is so deep we hardly let go.
I have heard and met people who had being hurt and have refused to let go and seriously folks whether we believe it or not, if we don't let go of our hurts, we are stunting our growth. A lot of married couples are childless due to unforgiveness others have lost opportunities while some others have vowed never to go into what led to the hurt .
Well, what ever be the reason for the hurt, let go. Yea you heard me right ! Let go. Nothing dey dis life ooo. If you die now every thing don finish . Sweet heart life it's self is a risk. That you were born was a risk; so don't be afraid to love again, or apply for that job or go into business partnership or be married again. Give your self a second chance and try again. Take that step of faith and see restoration come your way. Happy Sunday.
Saturday 23 May 2015
Perfect woman 2.
Yes am back to the issue of discuss I earlier posted.
Now why do men especially matured ones say "if I waited this long to be married, I would patiently wait for the perfect woman! I have heard quite a number of guys say that to me especially when our conversations dived into relationship talks. But like I always tell them, dont be too choosey and end up marrying the wrong person for you. Be the right man and have the right mind set and that special lady would be there waiting for you.
Now I wont tongue lash men only without saying one or two things about the ladies.
Babes!!! we have to brace up and be that wife material. Maybe you are currently two yards of wife material abeg increase am to 10 yards. Loolll. Dont mind me jare. But on a serious note we need to work on our selves first before praying for Mr Right. Lets stop giving men opportunity to leave us to the younger generation of ladies cos older ladies are not smiling ooo. But in all let God be your number one start point. There is nothing he cannot do if we look up to him. Well till my next post, "never say never". Love you. Muah.
Perfect woman
I saw this on a friend's personal message on bbm and it poped out a lot of questions. Wetin men dey find oooo. Dont mind my use of pigin but seriuosly a lot of good gals are waiting on that husband to find them but this same "husbands" dont see them as a right partner. What do we do for these sweet ladies.
Here is d caption that brought about this ranting. "God help the the man who won't marry until he finds the perfect woman, and God help him more if he finds her" Ben Tillet.
I would be back to juice up this first bite" winks"
Here is d caption that brought about this ranting. "God help the the man who won't marry until he finds the perfect woman, and God help him more if he finds her" Ben Tillet.
I would be back to juice up this first bite" winks"
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