CAUTION LADIES

 Gone were the days when scammers /419ners pick you along the road and start blabing about a bag filled with money that needs special prayers before it can be used, to 419ners now building a syndicate to scam a very financial comfortable lady in order to rip her off her wealth. They have grown to the level of now pretending to be in love with these ladies , get them pregnant, marry them and when they are done with you, they leave you penniless. Yes! You heard me right, they fake love around a lady to scam her.


Now this is reality. I had a conversation with an unfortunate lady who was a bank manager now turned caterer that fell for a fraudster.

I would call her Vivian. She was a successful wealthy single lady in her 30s believing God for a life partner when she fell into the hands of a 419ner. They met at a restuarant and one thing led to another they became intimate. This man made her grant a loan through her bank for a business which he advised should be a joint venture business.

From her story, she can't explain how that money was spent by the man. He told her he was ready to settle down in less than 4 months and proved his seriousness by first going for registry. She got pregnant while planning for their traditional wedding.

A month into their relationship, he took her to his village down the eastern part of nigeria and showed her to his family which of course shows a man who was into her. This and the whole wedding plans and ceremony happened in a space of 4 months.

Now the summary of this story is that she lost her job when the loan could not be repaid, had a son for him, lost the business they both started as he squandered the money, she was reduced to penury and relocated back to another state where she started afresh learning cakes and decor to meet up, discovered through a family member that loved her that the family he showed her where his syndicate of which his mother was a part, he was never a doctor as he made her believe , there are other ladies he has done same with and made them have a child for him while recking them to penury and above all he was a diabolical person.


This lady was so heart broken and  frustrated, that it took the grace of God for her to be standing today. So dear ladies in as much you want to settle down, don't allow desperation make you fall in the hands of wrong men. None  shall lack her mate so says the holy book . Be prayerful and be happy with your self. Just be careful. E hugs to you.