Holla ladies, how are you today? Well I have something new today for you. It's differentiating between the fake man and the one who is ready to put a ring on it. So let's get started.
A lot of single ladies encounter men who they either lust after or have a great crush on and before you know it, a relationship has developed. Down the line , these ladies begin to ask if this guy is ready to settle down or he is just for fun especially when age is not in favour with these ladies.
The answer to these questions lies on a lot of factors I would be highlighting later on but I would like to add that you as a lady need to be smart and set him up to know if he sees you as fun or a side chick or main chick.
Babes you need to develop a strategy to set him up or you get your fingers burnt again. Also, padlock your legs and wait for the him who is worth having it because a man would do anything to eat from your juicy pot. So guard your honey juice jealously. "Winks".
Here are a few tips I gathered from allwomenstalk.
The man for fun:
1. He avoids conversations near the topic of the future.
2. He plans with you for this Friday.
3. They tell you are awesome , fun and a really cool guy and plays the perfect man to you. Mind you there are no perfect man.
4. He tries to meet you up at night and occasionally encounter your friends which is more of accident.
5. He won't take the step of revealing his password and has a hard time remembering your siblings and what they majored in school.
6. He avoids talking about his bad day to you and tries not to worry about it.
7. He tells his friends minimal details about you and tries to keep your relationship casual saying he is taking his time.
8. He lies a lot about so many things and tells you the reasons he is not picking your calls or responding to your chats is because he is busy. Babes like really ! Please don't fall for that lie. When a man is serious with you and he loves you, he squeezes time out of no time to just hear your voice so please cut me the crap of him telling you he is busy.
9. He tells you not to visit his house without prior notice or you would be judged as barging into him. Abeg oooo barge into him so you see that you may not be the only chick in his life. Players would always want you to pre-inform them so they act up when you are around. Mind you he may also tell you not to call at a certain time . Pls call before you get a heart break jor. Anyways lets see the opposite of the guy who wants to settle down with you .
1. He talks about the future with you without hesitation.
2. He tells you some of his favorite things about you that are unique and plans a trip with you for next year.
3. He wants to hang out with you on a Sunday afternoon and wants you to meet his parents and friends and introduce yours to him.
4. He shares his password with you and remembers all the little details about you and your life.
5. He feels comfortable talking about a bad day or what is on his mind to you .
6. He loves to spend time with you no matter how busy he is and tells his friends about you and his plans for you.
7. He calls you his girl friend without giving it a second thought and gives you accesss to his life without hesistation.
8. He does not give you time jurisdiction to visit or call him. You have a spare key to his apartment and he loves to hear your voice.
9. He keeps texting or calling you during working hours to check on you and finds every little opportunity to show to you he loves you. He buys gifts , spoils you in a little way.
10. When you guys quarrel, it's for a stronger bond and not to excuse his weakness and looks for ways to make you better than he met you .
There are so many other things I would have included but for want of time, I like stop here and encourage ladies to be wise as serpents because Everyman you meet on the street is 5 times smarter than you. So wise up ladies. Am out.
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